I have in my short stay with Sulekha come across numerous blogs and comments on why we blog,but,it was only yesterday while watching "The Mask" on HBO that I finally think I have understood as to why most of seem to feel the need to blog.
The "Mask" is a metaphor for it enables Stanley Ipkiss to live out his life's dreams as the "Mask"-- showing his true inner person; one with a zanny sense of humour,zest for life,over the top attitude,devlish dancer wooing the emerald of Coco Bongo and the honest 'joe next door' , that resides within him.This is something that Stan Ipkiss is unable to do in real life,whether it is confronting his crabby landlady,his aggressive boss or expressing his love for the deliciously beautiful cameron diaz.
The Mask provides Stan the chance to release his pent up emotions and to indulge his fantastical yet repressed imagination,resulting in actions some undoubtedly illegal yet with a sense of panache.This behaviour is something he definately could not have indulged while being the proverbial grey man lost in the vastness of the city.The pinpricks on his psyche cause him emotional turmoil and incite him to rebel,yet, he lacks the courage to stand up to the establishment.The "Mask" therefore acts as a curtain that seperates the inner voice from the social face.
Insofar , blogging is concerned,the characters we choose for ourselves,the degree to which we reveal ourselves.. whether overtly or covertly,allows a shadow between who we are and who we seem on the dashboard!Thus, our lives though running parallel are on two plains,enabling us to put forth our thoughts, emotions, views,logic and rationale on issues that appeal to our hearts.
The free lien to creativity imparts a feel good factor, the non judgemental egalitarianism of the blog world allows an individual to indulge his imagination without fear that his thoughts may be interpreted as whimsy,flim flam or fantastical.The icing on the cake is when he or she gets feedback (positive/negative/or/polite indifferance). The importance of feedback lies in the fact that the blogger connects on a mental plain with another,andthat is the essence of expression!!
In the movie,Stanley Ipkiss visits a consultant who is an author of a book on masks,referring to the psychological aspects of duality in our basic nature.During the course of the conversation,the consultant who is fairly conviced that Stan Ipkiss requires counselling says"Mr Ipkiss I think that you in the mask and you yourself are both equally wonderful persons!!"
Which is fairly true for our blogging inputs,I mean<those of us who are light hearted tend to generally post fun blogs,while those of a more serious bent post fairly serious blogs consistently,and, the vast majority who are blessed in equal measure reflect that portion of their psyche,which appeals to them most when they sit down in front of the keyboard ,crack their fingers and press Enter.
Now then,what about the Stanley Ipkiss within Me?Well ,if what I have written has any truth in it,then I'm part of the vast majority writing what takes my fancy, at times charging windmills.. a 'la Don Quixote, at times just melancholy,or humorous,analytical,romantic or running to my own rythm ....
Either way , I ask you whats your take on why we blog?
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dear ashualec,
thats so true
Q
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dear DS,
thanks,its like being a puppet master reciting a poem or narrating a story from behind the screen ,listening to the laughter or cheers without being out on the stage,and yet.. getting a warm glow nonetheless!!
Quasimodo
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The reason we blog,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
"Anonymity is blissful "
speaks a lot
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the comparision to stanely ipkiss
and the mask is remarakable.
living in a virtual world we can fly
to our flights of fantasy or anger or
whatever whenever...
liked it vey much
and extremely well written
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hi WL,
true,its about self expression,catharsis and connection isn't it,
thanks.As far as pain is concerned it will always be there,and,rightly when shared it reduces while happiness multiplies,so till we find better answers..we blog!! cheers
Quasimodo
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dear maria,
This was the first handle I chose when I started writing way back in college first year,reason,I'd read the hunchback of notre dame in school(8th std) and I felt that he was the most sincere human of them all despite being ugly and physically challenged.
So when I needed a nom de plume or a mask if you wish I chose Quasimodo..though repulsive to look at yet goodness within..hopefully my pen shall bring goodness to light in all who read me!!
Ave Maria
Quasimodo
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Ya maybe you are right quasimodo..but see we are just humans..and we have very limited tolerance you know..I am what i am just because of my poetry...for me it's very hard to accept my emptyness and i was so angry inside of my heart..I feel need to express my self..so I try to throw away my pain as my poems..maybe if we shared our pain and secrets with the world..others will find some relief..so I started my blog here in SL..ANYWAYS my friend...good one
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yeah Quasimodo :-) we all wear masks here ... Frankly speaking I like the anonymity...the extent to which I may get it after using my actual name :-) ///didn't know abt handles when I created my login :-(...We can be whoever we want when we're online ... and maybe both of our personas are wonderful!!!
So why the hunchback of Notre Dame may I ask ? Just curious ...
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dear meera,
yea, i wrote this one for the comments,and ,just to see if my amatuer psycho analysis is anywhere near the truth?
Perhaps it is a case of ""I blog therefore Iam"'
yup, people are definitely freer on the net,at times to their own mortification when cooler thought sinks in
regards
Q
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Q -
Geez I am so screwed up
I am ME here and there... only here I meet more people, in real world I meet less *new* people :)
oh yea, people even without the mask - are less uninhibited in the virtual world
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